It’s been your baby’s best pal for months, but now it’s time to say bye bye to her dummy. Gulp. Start as you mean to go on with these tips
Whether it’s about comforting your baby when he’s upset or soothing him to sleep, dummies have a place in many parent kits.
But when it comes to taking it away from your child, well, that can be a bit tricky – especially as he gets older and starts to work out how a little thing called ‘will power’ works.
So, if you’re about to embark on Project Get Rid Of Dummy, arm yourself with some handy strategies.
1. Time it right
It’s generally wise to wean your baby off his dummy before 12 months. ‘That’s when he’ll often start to chatter,’ says Dr Rebecca Chicot, child development expert and co-founder of The Essential Parent Company.
‘It’s also easier to go cold turkey and take the dummy away in one go before then – he’ll get more strong willed later on and may be less happy to accept the change.’
2. Cut back dummy time
If you want to take a more gradual approach with your younger baby, start reducing the amount of time he has his dummy each day.
Every couple of days, let him have it for five minutes less each time, gradually decreasing it over two or three weeks until you can cut it out completely.
3. Find a new comforter
Have something to replace your child’s dummy, whether that’s a comforter or toy.
‘A dummy’s often used as a sleep aid, so anything else to take this role can make the transition smoother,’ says Rebecca.
4. Bring in the Dummy Fairy
A good one for toddlers – they’re a bit more open to negotiation and can understand the idea of a reward.
Explain that now he’s a big boy, the Dummy Fairy will take away his dummy
‘Explain that now he's a big boy, the Dummy Fairy will take away his dummy but he’ll get a present in return,’ says Rebecca.
‘Children love being thought of as a grown-up, so with any luck, this may work quite quickly – although you may have a couple of upset nights.’
Even hang it on the Christmas tree for the fairy (or Santa) to pick up.
5. Stay consistent
It’s tough when your little one’s missing his dummy but try to stay strong. ‘Don’t succumb to “pester power” and avoid being drawn into arguments,’ says Rebecca.
‘Distraction is a great tool – sing a song or dig out a forgotten toy to take his mind of the dummy.’
What are your tips for helping your baby give up a dummy? Let us know below.