It’s been your baby’s best pal for months, but now it’s time to say bye-bye to their dummy. Gulp. Start as you mean to go on with these pacifier weaning tips...
Whether it’s about comforting your baby when he’s upset or soothing him to sleep, dummies have a place in many parent kits.
But when it comes to taking it away from your child, well, that can be a bit tricky – especially as he gets older and starts to work out how a little thing called ‘willpower’ works.
So, if you’re about to embark on Project Get Rid Of Dummy, arm yourself with some handy strategies.
How to wean your child off their dummy:
It’s generally wise to wean your baby off his dummy before 12 months. ‘That’s when he’ll often start to chatter,’ says Dr Rebecca Chicot, child development expert and co-founder of The Essential Parent Company.
1. Time it right
‘It’s also easier to go cold turkey and take the dummy away in one go before then – he’ll get more strong-willed later on and may be less happy to accept the change.’
If you want to take a more gradual approach with your younger baby, start reducing the amount of time he has his dummy each day.
2. Slowly cut back
Every couple of days, let him have it for five minutes less each time, gradually decreasing it over two or three weeks until you can cut it out completely.
Have something to replace your child’s dummy, whether that’s a comforter or toy.
3. Find a new comforter
‘A dummy’s often used as a sleep aid, so anything else to take this role can make the transition smoother,’ says Rebecca.
A good one for toddlers – they’re a bit more open to negotiation and can understand the idea of a reward.
4. Bring in the Dummy Fairy
‘Explain that now he's a big boy, the Dummy Fairy will take away his dummy but he’ll get a present in return,’ says Rebecca.
‘Children love being thought of as a grown-up, so with any luck, this may work quite quickly – although you may have a couple of upset nights.’
Even hang it on the Christmas tree for the fairy (or Santa) to pick up.
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