Parents everywhere will agree that by far one of the most — if not the most — painful, uncomfortable, cumbersome, exhausting aspect of childrearing is — no, not childbirth — the sleep deprivation during those first few months after a baby is born.
One recent study reports that new parents face up to six years of disrupted sleep. It’s no wonder then that one of the most common questions new parents ask is, “when do babies start to sleep through the night?” Even though it seems like you’ll never ever sleep again, you don’t have to retire your sleeping mask just yet.
We’ve got the answer to this question for you, and we think you’ll quite like it!
How much sleep do babies need?
In order to have a better idea of when your child could start sleeping through the night, it’s important to know how much sleep a baby needs in general — at night-time, and during the day. According to Stanford Children’s Health, babies should be sleeping, on average:
Newborn: 16 hours (8-9 night, 7-8 day)
1 month: 15.5 hours (8-9 night, 7 day)
3 months: 15 hours (9-10 night, 4-5 day)
6 months: 14 hours (10 night, 4 day)
9-18 months: 14 hours (11 night, 3 day)
18 months: 13.5 hours (11 night, 2.5 day)
24 months: 12-13 hours (11-12 night, 1-2 day)
These hours indicate total sleep, and don’t necessarily mean uninterrupted sleep. Of course, every baby is different, and some could start sleeping more or less, or sooner or later than what is the average, and this not disconcerting, as long as it’s not too far off from the above ranges. If your child is sleeping much/less than the average, consult your paediatrician.
When do babies start sleeping through the night?
Up till they are two months old, your newborn baby will wake you up (or perhaps you’ll need to wake the little sleepy-head up) in order to be fed every two to three hours. A newborn can sleep for a maximum of three hours at a stretch without food, so they’ll need to be fed two or three times during the night. Sleeping hours during the night can gradually increase from two months onwards as they can start going longer without food.
By the time the baby is three months old — perhaps even slightly earlier, they can sleep for four to five hours at a stretch. When the baby reaches four or five months, there won’t be any need for a middle-of-the-night feed, and they could well sleep for seven or eight hours non-stop — the dream, right?
According to the National Sleep Foundation, by six months, the baby is physically able to sleep a full eight hours non-stop without eating.
When you’ve finished your little happy dance, read on. Just because the baby technically can sleep through the night, unfortunately, that doesn’t necessarily mean that they will. There are many reasons that a child older than six months may wake up in the night. For instance, a baby might not be hungry during the night, but are you hungry when you snack on popcorn while watching a film? No, it’s comfort and enjoyment. Similarly, a baby loves feeding time with you; it’s one of their favourite things in the world! When the baby wakes up in the middle of the night, it tends to have one thing, and one thing alone, on its little mind; comfort grub!
It’s safe to say that you shouldn’t really expect to be able to sleep much during the night with a baby under six months (although there are a lucky few!), but after six months, there are some steps you can take so you can eventually get some much-needed shut-eye, and for your baby to start enjoying sleeping through the night too.
How to help baby sleep through the night?
What can you do to encourage your baby to sleep through once they are well past the needing-food-during-the-night stage? Here are eight tired-and-tested tips:
2) Put them to sleep at the right time for their age
In addition to a bedtime routine, a standard bedtime is also important for increasing the chances of getting the baby to sleep through the night.
A consistent bedtime can program their body clock and soon, they’ll be the ones reminding you that it’s bedroom.
The Baby Sleep Site suggests
that by the time a baby is six months old, up till 10 months old, the optimal bedtime is anywhere from 6:00pm-7:30pm. From 10 months to three years old, the window for bedtime should be 6:00pm-8:00pm.
It’s important to remember that each child is different and you should discuss with your doctor if you are worried about your child’s sleeping habits, or any other questions you may have.
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