Since getting pregnant, you’ve probably learnt enough new phrases to fill a whole book.
And just as you might have learnt the words Braxton Hicks, Linea Nigra, and Ventouse during the weird and wonderful journey that is pregnancy, once you get closer to the finish line, you’ll be wondering what it means when your baby’s head is engaged.
From what it feels like to what it means, here's everything you need to know about your baby's head being engaged...
What happens when my baby's head is engaged?
When your midwife talks about your baby's head engaging (or bottom if your baby is sitting in the breech position), it means how far into your pelvis your baby's head has moved down.
“You might be told that baby is ‘at the brim’, which means that the baby's brow is just into your pelvis and the head can't wiggle and look around quite so much anymore,” says Rachel Fitz-Desorgher, a midwife with 30 years’ experience in infant feeding, active births and working with parents.
If the widest part of the baby’s head can get into the pelvis, there is a better chance that your new arrival will come out the other side at birth without too much difficulty.
“Week by week, you might learn that the head is 1/5th, 2/5ths, 3/5ths - and so on - into your pelvis as the head goes in deeper and deeper. Ask your midwife or GP if they are telling you how many fifths are already in your pelvis or how many can still be felt out - 3/5ths out is, of course, 2/5ths in! When 3/5ths are down into your pelvis, then the widest part of the head has got in and the baby is said to be engaged.”
But why is this measured? The answer is that if the widest part of the baby’s head can get into the pelvis, there is a better chance that your new arrival will come out the other side at birth without too much difficulty.
What are the symptoms?
The symptoms for each mother and baby vary, with some mums not getting any symptoms at all when their baby goes into their pelvis.
However, Fitz-Desorgher says, some mums could notice several different symptoms:
5) More Braxton Hicks contractions
“Always tell your midwife or GP what you are experiencing so that you can be properly checked to make sure that all is well and that your symptoms are simply the baby going downwards,” she adds.
When does a baby's head engage?
The time when a baby’s head engages varies from mother to mother, according to midwife Fitz-Desorgher.
There are several different factors that can affect the speed at which the head will drop in and engage, from the size and shape of your pelvis to whether you’re having your first baby or not. The way your baby is facing can also have an impact.
“With a first baby, the head generally starts to move down into the pelvis from about 36 weeks but some babies get moving downwards well before that,” she says. “Then, week by week, until you go into labour, the head moves down until it is engaged. Sometimes the engagement process is quick and sometimes it is slow. With a second or third (or umpteenth) baby, it is not uncommon for the baby to stay out of the pelvis, or just a little way in, until you get into labour. Then the baby goes into, through and out of the pelvis in one fell swoop in labour!”
Once my baby has engaged, how long will it be until I go into labour?
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer to the questions of how long it takes to go into labour once your baby has engaged.
Women vary enormously in their experience of labour, and the time it takes for engagement to happen can be extremely different, even with the same woman with different babies.
“People will tell you that once the head is engaged, you will go into labour soon,” says Fitz-Desorgher. “This is not true, nor is it true that you won't go into labour if the head hasn't engaged. However, with a first baby, the head going down (even if it doesn't fully engage) is a good sign that your pelvis is a good size for birth.
“Don't panic, though, if this is your first baby and the head hasn't gone down by term - it might simply be that baby needs to wiggle into a better position as labour gets going and then will get down into and through your pelvis quite nicely. Your midwife or GP is the best person to advise you, not your mates on Facebook!”
Can I encourage my baby to engage quicker?
There's all sorts of advice for women about how to encourage their babies to engage, but according to Fitz-Desorgher, it’s debatable whether these recommendations actually work.
- “Many people will tell you to lie on your left hand side in bed"
- "And to be careful not to sit too far back in your sofa"
She continues, "but good evidence for this is a little thin on the ground and many women start to fret and feel guilty when they do ‘all the right things’ and the baby hasn't dropped."
“Your body is beautifully evolved for growing and birthing your baby, so relax, stay as comfortable as you can in bed at night and when sitting at work or at home, and your baby will go into and through your pelvis all in good time. Remember that your midwife and GP are experts in understanding your pregnant body and how a baby grows and moves down. So write down all your worries and questions day by day and share them at every visit.”
Rachel Fitz-Desorgher’s first book: Your Baby Skin to Skin: Learn to Trust your Baby's Instincts in the First Year, is out now. (£12.99 White Ladder Press)