Whether you’re planning a big bash for your tot or fancy something a little more laid back, we’ve got oodles of first birthday party ideas for you to take a look at, from cake to party inspiration.
First birthday ideas can feel like a real minefield to navigate and it can be tough to try and not compare your plans to celebs glossy photos on Instagram.
Just remember that whatever it is that you decide to do, the main thing is that you are taking the time to celebrate the first year of your beautiful baby boy or baby girl's life, and all the memories you've shared so far.
First birthday party theme ideas
Firstly, the theme - there are so many things to go for, whether you choose your tot's favourite book or cartoon character or their favourite colour. It can all get a bit overwhelming, so we've come up with 11 great first birthday party ideas, perfect for both boys and girls, and indoor or outdoor celebrations.
1. Cake Smash first birthday party
We know it might seem a little strange to invest in a cake for your baby to destroy but trust us – the photos are adorable! Unsurprisingly, the craze started off in the US but now parents all across the UK are getting on board. While it's something many photographers offer to shoot in a studio, we love the idea of a home-photoshoot (although it might be worth waiting for a warm day so you can take the mess firmly outside). Then simply set up your camera to capture the fun and let your baby dig in. Invite friends and immediate family along to witness the cuteness.
2. Costume first birthday party
Admittedly, this is one that is firmly for your enjoyment but if you love dressing up your little one, what about a fancy-dress party with all her baby group buddies? You could keep the theme broad and allow parents to pick whatever costume they like or choose a specific theme like animals or superheroes.
3. Teddy Bear’s picnic first birthday party
If you’d prefer to keep things smaller or even if you don’t have much space at home, consider getting your close friends and family together for a picnic in the park. You can make this as relaxed as you want to, you could arrange everything yourself or get everyone involved and encourage people to bring a different dish each and spread out the work. For a teddy bear affair, get little ones to bring along their best furry friend too.
4. Festival fun first birthday party
If you've got a summer birthday, how about giving your outdoor celebrations a festival theme! Children’s tipis are hugely popular so get guests to bring them along if they have them and set up a garden festival where you can play music for the babies to boogie to and offer fun food options and a face paint, edible glitter or even a temporary tattoo station.
5. Princess first birthday party
Whether you have a boy or girl, if your toddler loves their princesses, consider booking an appearance from a Disney hero. This is a service that many companies now offer on a national and regional scale. Usually, your chosen princess will make an appearance at your baby’s birthday party, take lots of photos with the children and also run activities such as games, songs and stories.
6. Paddling pool first party
If your baby was born in the summer months and you’re expecting warm weather, consider asking fellow parents to bring along paddling pools so you can set up a pool party in your back garden. This is especially a great theme if your tot loves his or her mermaids. Just don’t forget those swim nappies!
7. Peter Rabbit first birthday party
Take inspiration from cleaning sensation Mrs Hinch who threw her adorable son Ronnie a Peter Rabbit themed lockdown birthday party. Influencer Sophie bought pom pop bunting, vegetable soft toys and made 'carrot cones' (filled with cheese balls) and soil desserts (made from oreos and buttercream).
8. Dinosaur first birthday party
A timeless first birthday theme, a dinosaur party will never get old. And if these dinosaur decorations aren't enough to convince you, we don't know what will!
9. Joint first birthday party
If you’re part of an NCT crew, it’s likely your babies will all have been born around the same time. This is a great opportunity to think about holding a joint party for whichever parents’ fancy taking part. You can share ideas, food prep, decorating and costs, making it a cheaper option all round. Just be sure you’re all on the same page first.
10. Book themed first birthday party
If you and your youngster have a particular favourite book you like to read together whether it’s The Hungry Caterpillar, We’re Going on a Bear Hunt or Guess How Much I Love You, what about basing your little one's birthday party around the story? Take inspiration from the plot for your decoration and even outfits and maybe gift each baby with a copy of the book at the end of the day.
11. Safari first birthday party
Here’s a wild idea, if you’ve got an animal-loving youngster, make this your theme for your baby’s birthday. Rather than choosing one specific animal (though this is an option too!), this means you have a broader range of ideas you can play with. Gather cuddly stuffed safari animals for the children to play with and look into balloon animal tutorials that will seriously impress your guests.
First birthday party decorations
Once you've picked a theme you get to throw yourself into the fun stuff - the decorations! For some decor inspiration - from banners, balloons, cake toppers and more - check out our first birthday decor ideas.
Royal advice on how to plan the perfect first birthday party
Treat your little prince or princess like the royalty they are and take inspiration from the first birthdays of Princes George, Louis and Archie and Princess Charlotte, with expert advice from Carole Middleton's party planners. Scroll through the gallery for tips on the guest list, where to host, how to pick a theme, what food to go for and even first birthday outfits!
Nearest and dearest
‘Keep the guest list short and invite a friend for older siblings so they don’t feel left out,’ says Sarah Reynolds, from online magazine The Party Times
, owned by Party Pieces
, Carole Middleton’s celebration supplies company. Image: Corbis
Keep it short
‘Hosting at home is practical (or take a picnic to the park) and aim for no more than two hours’ party time, which will suit one-year-old energy levels and attention spans,’ Sarah adds. Ideally hold the party at teatime to tally with baby’s routine
. Image: Corbis
Pick your theme
Choose two to four contrasting colours to influence decorations, and so on. ‘For our flamingo party, we used lime and hot pink and worked around that,’ says event planner Mark Niemierko of Niemierko Kids
. For toddlers, focus on their latest favourite. ‘We’re getting lots of Frozen
-inspired requests right now, as well as enchanted woodland events.’ Image: Corbis
For grown-ups, too
‘It’s nice to do a few separate dishes for adults, especially as the kids won’t eat a lot and most will end up on the floor as they feed themselves,’ advises Darren McGrady
, who was personal chef to The Queen for 15 years. Image: Corbis
Think easy to eat
Good options for little ones are homemade banana bread
(Darren suggests cutting into small cubes with a tiny piece of fresh strawberry held in place with whipped cream cheese), minced turkey meatballs and finger food. Image: Corbis
Keep it classic
‘The Duke and Duchess choose timeless styles for their baby,’ says children’s fashion designer Rachel Riley
, whose sailboat-design dungarees (£75, rachelriley.co.uk) sold out after George was photographed in them at a New Zealand playdate. ‘They've also made dungarees a must, which work well for both sexes because they allow movement and are easy to undo (for nappy changes), but still look smart.’
Let them eat cake!
For their wedding, William and Kate ordered a chocolate cake, using an old family recipe, and an eight-tiered cream masterpiece made by Fiona Cairns
– a layer of which was enjoyed at George’s christening, in line with tradition. Image: Corbis
Go with tried and tested
Fiona adds: ‘A good, basic cake is a Victoria Sponge
. It is a simple recipe, which can be adapted with flavours such as lemon or chocolate and used to make little fairy cakes or a larger cake to cut.’ If you’re not confident, think about a tray bake, vanilla cupcakes
or small meringues filled with cream. Image: Corbis
As with his big brother and sister, Kate and William shared photos
of Prince Louis to celebrate his first birthday. While no details of how the youngest child spent his birthday, we've no doubt it was a special day surrounded by friends and family.
Keep it relaxed
‘One-year-olds aren’t all going to play games together so keep things flexible with a few structured activities, and gauge how involved the other adults at the party will want to be in case you need help,’ says George Whitefield, director of children’s party organisers Sharky and George
. Image: Corbis
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